Wednesday, December 26, 2007

Open Question: Audio & keyboard buffs - who makes and/or sells low power stereo amps for keyboards - without the speakers?

My boyfriend has had a stroke, he's 38 yrs old, he has damaged his left side of his brain. No change in three days! His family thinks that I shouldn't go to the hospital. They say you don't want to see him this way, and we know he wont want you to see him this way! I cant help but want to be there to support him! I am getting so depressed and feeling so alone I don't know what to do. What if he wants me there, and no one knows! I just cannot take it much longer! I am not even sure if he can think! He does rub his family skin when they talk to him,and glances at them at times so I know hes responding. I dont know how much longer I can stay away from that hospital. The family really has no clue just how close of a bond that Jimi and I have been building together. All they tell me is that its not good! How can I stay home thinking about that and not being there for him to hear my voice!I dont know if you lose your memory during a stroke,maybe he wont know me! I am no good here! HELP ME!

Open Question: Audio & keyboard buffs - who makes and/or sells low power stereo amps for keyboards - without the speakers?


Many electronic keyboards have stereo outputs. I already have good musical instrument speakers, so all I need is an integrated stereo amp of between 30 and 50 RMS watts of power per channel. This is not for a huge hall, just for my home and for small meeting rooms. I can't seem to find any such amps other than used vintage stereo amps made in the 70's and 80's - and who knows how long they might last (and they're expensive to fix). Most MI amps seem to be mono and come with built-in speakers, not what I want at all. Thanks, Cezar, but that website is too general, too focused on "high end", and my searches yielded too many hits. I need something more specific.


Resolved Question: I'd like to start weight-lifting and some advice would be welcome?

Many electronic keyboards have stereo outputs. I already have good musical instrument speakers, so all I need is an integrated stereo amp of between 30 and 50 RMS watts of power per channel. This is not for a huge hall, just for my home and for small meeting rooms. I can't seem to find any such amps other than used vintage stereo amps made in the 70's and 80's - and who knows how long they might last (and they're expensive to fix). Most MI amps seem to be mono and come with built-in speakers, not what I want at all.

Resolved Question: How does this kid view me?


This girl Jocelynn who I met when she was 8; her mom is good friends with my mom. She always comes over with her Mom; they dropped by on my birthday and Jocelynn wanted to spend the night. When she does come over she always sits really close to me on the couch and for most of the evening doesn't interact with anybody else, one time while we were building a house of cards she got all jealous when her sister wanted to join in, she wanted me to have her email address and when I did email her she made of a folder just so she could have a place to keep my email. She has wanted me to meet her friends, when she was scared of going home with her dad she wanted me to come over. Also she's like "let's watch a movie together upstairs", we ended up watching one in the living room and as usual she sat really close to me on the couch. My question is how does she view me? By the way she's 9 and I'm 23. She also made me a bday card and acted very shy when she gave it to me. By the way I'm a guy. Also when we crossed the street she wanted me to hold her hand.

Resolved Question: I'd like to start weight-lifting and some advice would be welcome?


I want to start weight-lifting in my own home with barbells purchased from a Sport shop. By weight lifting I mean the deadlift, very heavy weights, not general gym weight training. Like an Olympic weight lifter: straight over-the-head stuff.

How should I get started? At present I am 22 years old, male, 5' 10" and about twelve stone (about 160lbs I think). Slim build more suited to cross-country than working with weights. I go to the gym frequently only to circuit train and have little experience of lifting heavy weights over my head.

Please help a beginner- thanks!


Open Question: Vista Downgrade?

Im nearing the age where i will no longer grow anymore 21 in 5 months... And i begin to notice my own family is beginning to discriminate against my height. I stand at 5'6 inches tall and skinny build but toned. My own mother treats me like a preteen, i asked her why she treats me with little respect and not on a adult adult level and she said boldly, "because your short". I was shocked. My cousins who are younger than me make fun of me, like "im only 16 and im taller than you *6'1'' kid" At a sit down last nite my family said, "he probably doesnt have a girlfriend because hes so short." And saying stuff like "I dont get it why hes so short and his parents is so tall." 3 of my cousins began to hit home saying "Hes always so depressed because hes short, if he was tall he wouldnt be." Im now in college again after a break and i notice its getting worse. Women bring it up, guy friends bring it up. Even my prof discriminate against my height. Does it get worse as you age and wont grow any.

Open Question: Which O.S. is better Media Center Ed. or Vista Home Premium?


I'm building a media center pc and I would like to know which operating system is better. Thanks.
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Open Question: I'd like to start a home business with low start up cost. What would be a good home business?


I have little to no interest in get rich quick schemes, but would like to build a nice profitable income to start building for retirement.
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Open Question: Vista Downgrade?


I have an HP Compaq nx7300 that came with Windows Vista Home Basic. Well, I got fed up with Vista. It really makes the computer slow. I tried to reinstall XP the conventional way, but doesn't work.
Has anyone encountered a similar problem? Better yet, has anyone managed to replace Vista with XP? What do I have to do to get rid of Vista?

PS There was no disc accompanying the notebook. Everything is built in. I bought it in Cyprus. Thats where I live.


Open Question: If you could have your choice?

Long story short, after being disgusted with the performance of Vista on my newly built PC I decided to throw in a new HDD and install XP instead.

It loaded without issue, everything works fine and after several weeks I have not had a BSOD incident like I was having with Vista. The problem is it won't shut down.

It can reboot without a problem, but when it goes through the shutdown phase it does everything it's supposed to do, it says, "Windows is now shutting down" the message disappears and all that's left is the blue background which then sits there and does nothing. I have to force a power down by holding the power button. When this happens I check the logs but they're not showing any kind of error.

PC is home built with the following:
Mobo: M2N32-SLI Premium Vista edition
CPU: AMD Athlon 64 X2 4600+
RAM: 4GB Corsair XMS DDR2
OS: Legal copy of Windows XP

Any adivce? DS Aviation Services: Thanks for the advice, but we're talking XP here not 98. Besides, the PC reboots fine it just won't shut down. Zaalim: It's not a virus, hardware issue or BIOS setting. Remember, the PC can and will reboot with no problem. It simply won't power off. Abbracia: Yes, I have the latest patches & service packs. Thanks to everybody offering the idea that it's a virus, but it isn't a virus. I have a scanner on my system, it's up to date and I haven't downloaded anything I shouldn't have. Trust me on this one, I'm an IT geek and my system is protected.

Open Question: If you could have your choice?


Of having frree a brand new home and everything new inside or a home built in the 40's or so...with furnishings fromt he same era, which would you choose?

I would choose the old home and furnishings. things were built so much better and lasted so much longer than today. and if they threw in an old car too it would be fine!!!


Open Question: Which scenario gives us a chance at fighting terror? Staying in Iraq, or leaving Iraq?

I've heard them, well seen them both at a funeral.

One is:
"Do not stand at my grave and weep
I did not die, I do not sleep"

The other is:
"If teardrops could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
I would go up to heaven
And bring you home again"

Those are the lines I remember. Anyone know the full poem?

Open Question: My new Bowflex revolution has no tesion on the weight and the bar where you put the weights are lopsided help?


i have the bow flex home gym should i take it all aprt and try again i dont know what to do please help can someone give me pictures on it how it supposed to look from the inside and if i built it correclty please help email them to me or anything please help!!
thank you.

Resolved Question: mirror image of hard drive?


ok so i am about to built my new computer just as soon as the parts arrive. and i will be installing windows vista home premium on it. what i would like to know is what is the best software for making a mirrow image of my hard drive onto a second hard drive.. for backup e.g. so latter i won't have the bother of re-installing windows if anything goes bad freeware prefered as i have used up all funds on new pc

Open Question: Which scenario gives us a chance at fighting terror? Staying in Iraq, or leaving Iraq?


Keep in mind the toll this drawn out war is taking on our military. if the terrorists could wait for us to leave and then attack us again, would it make more sense for us to be at home protecting ourselves and building up our military? Or should we just continue the hemorrohage of american lives and american dollars for the appearance of 'strength'? I will answer your questions on your points. Please answer mine on my points, or delete your response.


Open Question: Old Flame?

I have a take home test and i would just like to be able to check a few of the answers that i'm unsure of

True or False- In a process called GLACIAL EROSION, the rocks dragge by glaciers produce grooves and scratches in bedrock?
(if false then make the sentence true by changing the word in capitals)

Granite Lasts a long time when it is used for building areas where the climate...
a.) does not have freezing and thawing
b.) is cool
c.) does not have acid rain
d.) is hot an rainy

Soil formation begins with the weathering of...
a.) litter.
b.) rock
c.) the A horizon
d.) humus

Removing nonrenewable resources such as iron and copper from the ground is called
a.) devlopment
b.) nutrient depletion
c.) silt
d.) clay

Mass movement is caused by...
a.) plucking and abrasion
b.) gravity
c.) chemical weathering
d.) erosion and deposition It's not a test but a takehome test. She perfers us to work with friend or use online to get the information so we become more aware of our unit.
heres added questions

Where a river flows from an area of softer rock, the softer rock may wear away, eventually forming a drop call a(n)
a.) oxbow lake
b.) gully
c.) waterfall
d.) delta

A wide sloping deposit of sediment formed where a stream leaves a mountain range is call a(n)
a.) divide
b.) drainage basin
c.) alluvial fan
d.) slump

Deltas are built up by
a.) deposition
b.) leaching
c.) abrasion
d.) erosion

What causes most sediment to wash or fall into a river?
a.) friction
b.) deposition
c.) mass movement and runoff
d.) turbulence

How woul a fast-flowing river be most likely to move sand-sized particales of sediment?
a.) it would carry them suspended in the water
b.) it would dissolve them completely in solution
c) it would push or slide them along the streambed
d) it would deposit them along its banks Uhm out of a 100 question take home test, i dont think being unsure about ten is a big deal. Also, especially not if i'm not exactly understanding some of what we're learning

Open Question: Windows vista built in laptops are much less in price than with XP may I buy Vista,delete it and add XP?


I want to delet Vista and add XP from my CD can I do that? I do not want Vista as I am using my lap top for home use.
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Open Question: Old Flame?


A girl i was seeing got pregnant by another guy (we were not exclusive) she ended up marrying him. He works overseas and doesnt want to come back home. I havent talked to her for two months and she came yesterday to bring me a christmas present. She says that they are probably going to get a divorce. She got me a teddy bear from build-a-bear. I had really strong feelings for her, but was really hurt when she got pregnant and married. Please tell me what you think. I think she wanted me more than him but felt the right thing to do was to marry him. I am really confused, what does she want from me? She knows I dont want to be "just friends". Please Help.


Open Question: Could someone help me to cut down my Grad School purpose statement to about 2 pages, (it's currently 4-5)?

The study of politics first grabbed my attention when I started to pursue my own examination of the Civil Rights Movement. Examining the methods employed by the Eisenhower, Kennedy, and Johnson administrations to achieve “order over justice” at various points in the movement always bothered me. However, these same methods that I deplored with the advantage of hindsight that I now enjoy through the works of many scholars such as Taylor Branch and David Garrow led to my fascination with international and comparative politics. Particularly, Pan-Africanism and its effect on Black American political thought and activism.
My study of civil rights was originally intended to be a personal examination of the people, places and events that were so critical in shaping my African-American experience. During undergrad, I found myself enchanted with classes such as Turning Points in U.S. History #1 which examined the Black slave from colonial times to the beginning of reconstruction, Turning Points in U.S. History #2 which examined the Black man during the height of the second freedom struggle know as the Civil Rights Movement, and Africana Studies which examined the modern African-American experience today in America – and was taught by a professor with a professed Pan-Africanist point of view. This Pan-Africanist prospective opened my eyes not only to Pan-Africanism, but also to having a more internationalist perspective of current events.
Coincidentally, the semester I was enrolled in Africana Studies, I was also privileged to be enrolled in The History of South Africa and Middle East 2: The Modern Period simultaneously. Looking back, The History of South Africa course reinforced Ian Bremmer’s theory on “The J Curve.” I saw how domestic pressure from an increasingly unhappy but politically powerless Black majority combined with sanctions and isolation from the international community eventually hastened the inevitable breakdown of apartheid. However, I was more impressed by how President Mandela had the vision and political savvy to use his political capital to transition his country to the upper right side of the J-Curve through the combination of reconciliation, openness, and sound economic policies (However, I firmly believe that to keep South Africa from the same fate as Zimbabwe or other African countries he had no choice but to pursue the policies that he did. Mandela was thinking for the long term rather than short term, just as the Whites who voted for the transitional government were thinking.)
Just as President Mandela was planning for the long term, Middle East 2: The Modern Period also taught me Theodore Herzl’s long term strategies for Zionism and the establishment of the modern nation of Israel. This was particularly fascinating for me because I was able to compare and contrast Pan-Africanism with Zionism. Although the two philosophies aren't identical, a sharp comparison of the two demonstrates when, where and how an idea is likely to take hold and evolve into a movement and why great movements don't always make for great administration and state building.
As a social studies education major I was often forced to substitute courses I was eager to take in the fields of international relations and Africana studies for courses that "were required" for my major. Originally I viewed this as a negative aspect, but once again hindsight has proved that taking the required social studies education curriculum which stressed breadth (geography, history, political science, economics, sociology) over depth (single discipline) has placed me ahead of some of my peers when it comes to understanding politics and contemporary history from multiple perspectives, which is an even bigger advantage in the interdisciplinary fields of Africana studies and international relations. This was confirmed in the summer prior to my senior year of undergrad. I finally got my opportunity to take two courses that induced me to consider a change of career plans, U.S. Foreign Policy and Comparative Politics. These two courses challenged the typical American citizen's thinking of foreign affairs by requiring us to go beyond our perceptions of the policy by examining a policy's messy domestic formulation, its comparative perception overseas, and the policy's resulting consequences at home and abroad. Each course challenged mythmaking by examining harsh realities due to history, geography, economics, and sociology - not just politics. Everything plays a role seen and unseen.
Although graduate school was never my intention three years earlier as I first entered college, I had now given it enough thought over the course of two years (sophomore & junior) to know that it was something I definitely wished to pursue. I knew I wanted to combine my interests in Africana studies, history, and political science/international affairs in a way that both advanced knowledge and challenged social norms and values in ways that could bring about fundamental change through practical pursuits. I needed creativity combined with hard facts, solid statistics, and in-depth analysis. I needed to study Africana studies with an emphasis in political science (international/comparative) and contemporary history. I saw this as the best path for myself because I would be able to use my breadth of studies to analyze issues from multiple angles, as well as my strong desire for in-depth analysis to dig deep into the heart/root of any issue.
Coincidentally, I had been a member of the legislative body of the student government for two years. This granted me the opportunity to participate in researching issues, conducting opinion polls, and most importantly test my knowledge, judgment and interpersonal communication skills in choosing the best options and alternatives for the student body. This experience was extremely helpful in my understanding of legislative politics by providing a practical application to my theory based knowledge. In the same manner my three years spent as a resident assistant in the residence halls on campus induced me into good time management skills as well as opening my senses and sensibilities to people with different backgrounds, ideals and habits from my own. Talking with residents and learning their values and interests forced me to see each situation that arose from multiple perspectives, be they right or wrong.
Being away from school for two years has been a huge advantage for me. Moving to metro N/A from central Pennsylvania (raised)/northeast Ohio (college) has also allowed me to bring the Civil Rights Movement to life through visiting museums and historic sights. Also, my southern experience has allowed me to experience life in a different region of the country which in turn has taught me just how diverse African-American thought can range on similar issues. I've invested my time in reading history, politics, old college textbooks (which seem to make even more sense now), The Washington Post, and scholarly journals such as Foreign Affairs, The Fletcher Forum of World Affairs, and Policy Review. I also used my degree in education to teach tenth grade World History Honors at a local high school in N/A. This experience gave me (my last semester in undergrad I also student taught American government and Economics to high school seniors) the honor of disseminating knowledge to young intellectuals striving to push ahead in life. However, this isn't a path that can cure my intellectual hunger and curiosity. Even though I love teaching, I also love researching and creating knowledge as well. Teaching in an inner-city high school reinforced and even expanded upon my deep beliefs in "learning for learning’s sake" and keeping an open mind. Not only has my experience exposed weaknesses in me that I previously could only recognize in other people, but it also focused my graduate studies on African Americans within the African Diaspora. Growing up in Williamsport, PA, a conservative predominately white town in central Pennsylvania, I often experienced subtle (but noticeable) racism hidden under a veil of generosity. African-American history, culture and activism were 'melted' rather than 'solidified'. My college and subsequent job experience has provided me with a greater realization of my place within the African Diaspora. Naturally, my intense interest in the Civil Rights movement, international relations, and African Diaspora studies has revealed that my deepest desire is to increase communication, openness and cohesion among members of the Diaspora throughout the world. I realize that politics is what helps create history and should be taken more seriously by citizens and scholars alike.
In graduate school I intend to focus on African American studies with an emphasis in contemporary history and politics (primarily international/comparative). I intend to research how the African-American "double-consciousness" (Dubois) can effectively promote U.S. foreign policy (and global stability) in ways that will strengthen Pan-Africanism. In part of this study I intend to examine contemporary African-American members of the federal government to examine their "views and proceeding actions" towards U.S. foreign policy and Pan-Africanism. This is necessary in order to examine whether African-American policy makers have "adopted" a mainstream view of foreign affairs and why. I also intend to expand upon African-American participation in foreign policy to include new African immigrants and the effect they could have on U.S. foreign policy and their former countries by empowering democracy from abroad through American soft power, particularly the media. Do we need more "African" politicians in so called "Black" communities in order to diversify thinking on both sides and foster a better working coalition among both groups? If so, what compromises will have to be made on each side? In speaking of Africa, I would love to examine the question, "Does a shared view of history decrease violence and promote cooperation between rival groups within Africa and among the African Diaspora?"


Open Question: Could someone help me to cut down my Grad School purpose statement to about 2 pages, (it's currently 4-5)?

The study of politics first grabbed my attention when I started to pursue my own examination of the Civil Rights Movement. Examining the methods employed by the Eisenhower, Kennedy, and Johnson administrations to achieve “order over justice” at various points in the movement always bothered me. However, these same methods that I deplored with the advantage of hindsight that I now enjoy through the works of many scholars such as Taylor Branch and David Garrow led to my fascination with international and comparative politics. Particularly, Pan-Africanism and its effect on Black American political thought and activism.
My study of civil rights was originally intended to be a personal examination of the people, places and events that were so critical in shaping my African-American experience. During undergrad, I found myself enchanted with classes such as Turning Points in U.S. History #1 which examined the Black slave from colonial times to the beginning of reconstruction, Turning Points in U.S. History #2 which examined the Black man during the height of the second freedom struggle know as the Civil Rights Movement, and Africana Studies which examined the modern African-American experience today in America – and was taught by a professor with a professed Pan-Africanist point of view. This Pan-Africanist prospective opened my eyes not only to Pan-Africanism, but also to having a more internationalist perspective of current events.
Coincidentally, the semester I was enrolled in Africana Studies, I was also privileged to be enrolled in The History of South Africa and Middle East 2: The Modern Period simultaneously. Looking back, The History of South Africa course reinforced Ian Bremmer’s theory on “The J Curve.” I saw how domestic pressure from an increasingly unhappy but politically powerless Black majority combined with sanctions and isolation from the international community eventually hastened the inevitable breakdown of apartheid. However, I was more impressed by how President Mandela had the vision and political savvy to use his political capital to transition his country to the upper right side of the J-Curve through the combination of reconciliation, openness, and sound economic policies (However, I firmly believe that to keep South Africa from the same fate as Zimbabwe or other African countries he had no choice but to pursue the policies that he did. Mandela was thinking for the long term rather than short term, just as the Whites who voted for the transitional government were thinking.)
Just as President Mandela was planning for the long term, Middle East 2: The Modern Period also taught me Theodore Herzl’s long term strategies for Zionism and the establishment of the modern nation of Israel. This was particularly fascinating for me because I was able to compare and contrast Pan-Africanism with Zionism. Although the two philosophies aren't identical, a sharp comparison of the two demonstrates when, where and how an idea is likely to take hold and evolve into a movement and why great movements don't always make for great administration and state building.
As a social studies education major I was often forced to substitute courses I was eager to take in the fields of international relations and Africana studies for courses that "were required" for my major. Originally I viewed this as a negative aspect, but once again hindsight has proved that taking the required social studies education curriculum which stressed breadth (geography, history, political science, economics, sociology) over depth (single discipline) has placed me ahead of some of my peers when it comes to understanding politics and contemporary history from multiple perspectives, which is an even bigger advantage in the interdisciplinary fields of Africana studies and international relations. This was confirmed in the summer prior to my senior year of undergrad. I finally got my opportunity to take two courses that induced me to consider a change of career plans, U.S. Foreign Policy and Comparative Politics. These two courses challenged the typical American citizen's thinking of foreign affairs by requiring us to go beyond our perceptions of the policy by examining a policy's messy domestic formulation, its comparative perception overseas, and the policy's resulting consequences at home and abroad. Each course challenged mythmaking by examining harsh realities due to history, geography, economics, and sociology - not just politics. Everything plays a role seen and unseen.
Although graduate school was never my intention three years earlier as I first entered college, I had now given it enough thought over the course of two years (sophomore & junior) to know that it was something I definitely wished to pursue. I knew I wanted to combine my interests in Africana studies, history, and political science/international affairs in a way that both advanced knowledge and challenged social norms and values in ways that could bring about fundamental change through practical pursuits. I needed creativity combined with hard facts, solid statistics, and in-depth analysis. I needed to study Africana studies with an emphasis in political science (international/comparative) and contemporary history. I saw this as the best path for myself because I would be able to use my breadth of studies to analyze issues from multiple angles, as well as my strong desire for in-depth analysis to dig deep into the heart/root of any issue.
Coincidentally, I had been a member of the legislative body of the student government for two years. This granted me the opportunity to participate in researching issues, conducting opinion polls, and most importantly test my knowledge, judgment and interpersonal communication skills in choosing the best options and alternatives for the student body. This experience was extremely helpful in my understanding of legislative politics by providing a practical application to my theory based knowledge. In the same manner my three years spent as a resident assistant in the residence halls on campus induced me into good time management skills as well as opening my senses and sensibilities to people with different backgrounds, ideals and habits from my own. Talking with residents and learning their values and interests forced me to see each situation that arose from multiple perspectives, be they right or wrong.
Being away from school for two years has been a huge advantage for me. Moving to metro N/A from central Pennsylvania (raised)/northeast Ohio (college) has also allowed me to bring the Civil Rights Movement to life through visiting museums and historic sights. Also, my southern experience has allowed me to experience life in a different region of the country which in turn has taught me just how diverse African-American thought can range on similar issues. I've invested my time in reading history, politics, old college textbooks (which seem to make even more sense now), The Washington Post, and scholarly journals such as Foreign Affairs, The Fletcher Forum of World Affairs, and Policy Review. I also used my degree in education to teach tenth grade World History Honors at a local high school in N/A. This experience gave me (my last semester in undergrad I also student taught American government and Economics to high school seniors) the honor of disseminating knowledge to young intellectuals striving to push ahead in life. However, this isn't a path that can cure my intellectual hunger and curiosity. Even though I love teaching, I also love researching and creating knowledge as well. Teaching in an inner-city high school reinforced and even expanded upon my deep beliefs in "learning for learning’s sake" and keeping an open mind. Not only has my experience exposed weaknesses in me that I previously could only recognize in other people, but it also focused my graduate studies on African Americans within the African Diaspora. Growing up in Williamsport, PA, a conservative predominately white town in central Pennsylvania, I often experienced subtle (but noticeable) racism hidden under a veil of generosity. African-American history, culture and activism were 'melted' rather than 'solidified'. My college and subsequent job experience has provided me with a greater realization of my place within the African Diaspora. Naturally, my intense interest in the Civil Rights movement, international relations, and African Diaspora studies has revealed that my deepest desire is to increase communication, openness and cohesion among members of the Diaspora throughout the world. I realize that politics is what helps create history and should be taken more seriously by citizens and scholars alike.
In graduate school I intend to focus on African American studies with an emphasis in contemporary history and politics (primarily international/comparative). I intend to research how the African-American "double-consciousness" (Dubois) can effectively promote U.S. foreign policy (and global stability) in ways that will strengthen Pan-Africanism. In part of this study I intend to examine contemporary African-American members of the federal government to examine their "views and proceeding actions" towards U.S. foreign policy and Pan-Africanism. This is necessary in order to examine whether African-American policy makers have "adopted" a mainstream view of foreign affairs and why. I also intend to expand upon African-American participation in foreign policy to include new African immigrants and the effect they could have on U.S. foreign policy and their former countries by empowering democracy from abroad through American soft power, particularly the media. Do we need more "African" politicians in so called "Black" communities in order to diversify thinking on both sides and foster a better working coalition among both groups? If so, what compromises will have to be made on each side? In speaking of Africa, I would love to examine the question, "Does a shared view of history decrease violence and promote cooperation between rival groups within Africa and among the African Diaspora?"


Open Question: Could someone help me to cut down my Grad School purpose statement to about 2 pages, (it's currently 4-5)?

The study of politics first grabbed my attention when I started to pursue my own examination of the Civil Rights Movement. Examining the methods employed by the Eisenhower, Kennedy, and Johnson administrations to achieve “order over justice” at various points in the movement always bothered me. However, these same methods that I deplored with the advantage of hindsight that I now enjoy through the works of many scholars such as Taylor Branch and David Garrow led to my fascination with international and comparative politics. Particularly, Pan-Africanism and its effect on Black American political thought and activism.
My study of civil rights was originally intended to be a personal examination of the people, places and events that were so critical in shaping my African-American experience. During undergrad, I found myself enchanted with classes such as Turning Points in U.S. History #1 which examined the Black slave from colonial times to the beginning of reconstruction, Turning Points in U.S. History #2 which examined the Black man during the height of the second freedom struggle know as the Civil Rights Movement, and Africana Studies which examined the modern African-American experience today in America – and was taught by a professor with a professed Pan-Africanist point of view. This Pan-Africanist prospective opened my eyes not only to Pan-Africanism, but also to having a more internationalist perspective of current events.
Coincidentally, the semester I was enrolled in Africana Studies, I was also privileged to be enrolled in The History of South Africa and Middle East 2: The Modern Period simultaneously. Looking back, The History of South Africa course reinforced Ian Bremmer’s theory on “The J Curve.” I saw how domestic pressure from an increasingly unhappy but politically powerless Black majority combined with sanctions and isolation from the international community eventually hastened the inevitable breakdown of apartheid. However, I was more impressed by how President Mandela had the vision and political savvy to use his political capital to transition his country to the upper right side of the J-Curve through the combination of reconciliation, openness, and sound economic policies (However, I firmly believe that to keep South Africa from the same fate as Zimbabwe or other African countries he had no choice but to pursue the policies that he did. Mandela was thinking for the long term rather than short term, just as the Whites who voted for the transitional government were thinking.)
Just as President Mandela was planning for the long term, Middle East 2: The Modern Period also taught me Theodore Herzl’s long term strategies for Zionism and the establishment of the modern nation of Israel. This was particularly fascinating for me because I was able to compare and contrast Pan-Africanism with Zionism. Although the two philosophies aren't identical, a sharp comparison of the two demonstrates when, where and how an idea is likely to take hold and evolve into a movement and why great movements don't always make for great administration and state building.
As a social studies education major I was often forced to substitute courses I was eager to take in the fields of international relations and Africana studies for courses that "were required" for my major. Originally I viewed this as a negative aspect, but once again hindsight has proved that taking the required social studies education curriculum which stressed breadth (geography, history, political science, economics, sociology) over depth (single discipline) has placed me ahead of some of my peers when it comes to understanding politics and contemporary history from multiple perspectives, which is an even bigger advantage in the interdisciplinary fields of Africana studies and international relations. This was confirmed in the summer prior to my senior year of undergrad. I finally got my opportunity to take two courses that induced me to consider a change of career plans, U.S. Foreign Policy and Comparative Politics. These two courses challenged the typical American citizen's thinking of foreign affairs by requiring us to go beyond our perceptions of the policy by examining a policy's messy domestic formulation, its comparative perception overseas, and the policy's resulting consequences at home and abroad. Each course challenged mythmaking by examining harsh realities due to history, geography, economics, and sociology - not just politics. Everything plays a role seen and unseen.
Although graduate school was never my intention three years earlier as I first entered college, I had now given it enough thought over the course of two years (sophomore & junior) to know that it was something I definitely wished to pursue. I knew I wanted to combine my interests in Africana studies, history, and political science/international affairs in a way that both advanced knowledge and challenged social norms and values in ways that could bring about fundamental change through practical pursuits. I needed creativity combined with hard facts, solid statistics, and in-depth analysis. I needed to study Africana studies with an emphasis in political science (international/comparative) and contemporary history. I saw this as the best path for myself because I would be able to use my breadth of studies to analyze issues from multiple angles, as well as my strong desire for in-depth analysis to dig deep into the heart/root of any issue.
Coincidentally, I had been a member of the legislative body of the student government for two years. This granted me the opportunity to participate in researching issues, conducting opinion polls, and most importantly test my knowledge, judgment and interpersonal communication skills in choosing the best options and alternatives for the student body. This experience was extremely helpful in my understanding of legislative politics by providing a practical application to my theory based knowledge. In the same manner my three years spent as a resident assistant in the residence halls on campus induced me into good time management skills as well as opening my senses and sensibilities to people with different backgrounds, ideals and habits from my own. Talking with residents and learning their values and interests forced me to see each situation that arose from multiple perspectives, be they right or wrong.
Being away from school for two years has been a huge advantage for me. Moving to metro N/A from central Pennsylvania (raised)/northeast Ohio (college) has also allowed me to bring the Civil Rights Movement to life through visiting museums and historic sights. Also, my southern experience has allowed me to experience life in a different region of the country which in turn has taught me just how diverse African-American thought can range on similar issues. I've invested my time in reading history, politics, old college textbooks (which seem to make even more sense now), The Washington Post, and scholarly journals such as Foreign Affairs, The Fletcher Forum of World Affairs, and Policy Review. I also used my degree in education to teach tenth grade World History Honors at a local high school in N/A. This experience gave me (my last semester in undergrad I also student taught American government and Economics to high school seniors) the honor of disseminating knowledge to young intellectuals striving to push ahead in life. However, this isn't a path that can cure my intellectual hunger and curiosity. Even though I love teaching, I also love researching and creating knowledge as well. Teaching in an inner-city high school reinforced and even expanded upon my deep beliefs in "learning for learning’s sake" and keeping an open mind. Not only has my experience exposed weaknesses in me that I previously could only recognize in other people, but it also focused my graduate studies on African Americans within the African Diaspora. Growing up in Williamsport, PA, a conservative predominately white town in central Pennsylvania, I often experienced subtle (but noticeable) racism hidden under a veil of generosity. African-American history, culture and activism were 'melted' rather than 'solidified'. My college and subsequent job experience has provided me with a greater realization of my place within the African Diaspora. Naturally, my intense interest in the Civil Rights movement, international relations, and African Diaspora studies has revealed that my deepest desire is to increase communication, openness and cohesion among members of the Diaspora throughout the world. I realize that politics is what helps create history and should be taken more seriously by citizens and scholars alike.
In graduate school I intend to focus on African American studies with an emphasis in contemporary history and politics (primarily international/comparative). I intend to research how the African-American "double-consciousness" (Dubois) can effectively promote U.S. foreign policy (and global stability) in ways that will strengthen Pan-Africanism. In part of this study I intend to examine contemporary African-American members of the federal government to examine their "views and proceeding actions" towards U.S. foreign policy and Pan-Africanism. This is necessary in order to examine whether African-American policy makers have "adopted" a mainstream view of foreign affairs and why. I also intend to expand upon African-American participation in foreign policy to include new African immigrants and the effect they could have on U.S. foreign policy and their former countries by empowering democracy from abroad through American soft power, particularly the media. Do we need more "African" politicians in so called "Black" communities in order to diversify thinking on both sides and foster a better working coalition among both groups? If so, what compromises will have to be made on each side? In speaking of Africa, I would love to examine the question, "Does a shared view of history decrease violence and promote cooperation between rival groups within Africa and among the African Diaspora?"


Open Question: Could someone help me to cut down my Grad School purpose statement to about 2 pages, (it's currently 4-5)?

The study of politics first grabbed my attention when I started to pursue my own examination of the Civil Rights Movement. Examining the methods employed by the Eisenhower, Kennedy, and Johnson administrations to achieve “order over justice” at various points in the movement always bothered me. However, these same methods that I deplored with the advantage of hindsight that I now enjoy through the works of many scholars such as Taylor Branch and David Garrow led to my fascination with international and comparative politics. Particularly, Pan-Africanism and its effect on Black American political thought and activism.
My study of civil rights was originally intended to be a personal examination of the people, places and events that were so critical in shaping my African-American experience. During undergrad, I found myself enchanted with classes such as Turning Points in U.S. History #1 which examined the Black slave from colonial times to the beginning of reconstruction, Turning Points in U.S. History #2 which examined the Black man during the height of the second freedom struggle know as the Civil Rights Movement, and Africana Studies which examined the modern African-American experience today in America – and was taught by a professor with a professed Pan-Africanist point of view. This Pan-Africanist prospective opened my eyes not only to Pan-Africanism, but also to having a more internationalist perspective of current events.
Coincidentally, the semester I was enrolled in Africana Studies, I was also privileged to be enrolled in The History of South Africa and Middle East 2: The Modern Period simultaneously. Looking back, The History of South Africa course reinforced Ian Bremmer’s theory on “The J Curve.” I saw how domestic pressure from an increasingly unhappy but politically powerless Black majority combined with sanctions and isolation from the international community eventually hastened the inevitable breakdown of apartheid. However, I was more impressed by how President Mandela had the vision and political savvy to use his political capital to transition his country to the upper right side of the J-Curve through the combination of reconciliation, openness, and sound economic policies (However, I firmly believe that to keep South Africa from the same fate as Zimbabwe or other African countries he had no choice but to pursue the policies that he did. Mandela was thinking for the long term rather than short term, just as the Whites who voted for the transitional government were thinking.)
Just as President Mandela was planning for the long term, Middle East 2: The Modern Period also taught me Theodore Herzl’s long term strategies for Zionism and the establishment of the modern nation of Israel. This was particularly fascinating for me because I was able to compare and contrast Pan-Africanism with Zionism. Although the two philosophies aren't identical, a sharp comparison of the two demonstrates when, where and how an idea is likely to take hold and evolve into a movement and why great movements don't always make for great administration and state building.
As a social studies education major I was often forced to substitute courses I was eager to take in the fields of international relations and Africana studies for courses that "were required" for my major. Originally I viewed this as a negative aspect, but once again hindsight has proved that taking the required social studies education curriculum which stressed breadth (geography, history, political science, economics, sociology) over depth (single discipline) has placed me ahead of some of my peers when it comes to understanding politics and contemporary history from multiple perspectives, which is an even bigger advantage in the interdisciplinary fields of Africana studies and international relations. This was confirmed in the summer prior to my senior year of undergrad. I finally got my opportunity to take two courses that induced me to consider a change of career plans, U.S. Foreign Policy and Comparative Politics. These two courses challenged the typical American citizen's thinking of foreign affairs by requiring us to go beyond our perceptions of the policy by examining a policy's messy domestic formulation, its comparative perception overseas, and the policy's resulting consequences at home and abroad. Each course challenged mythmaking by examining harsh realities due to history, geography, economics, and sociology - not just politics. Everything plays a role seen and unseen.
Although graduate school was never my intention three years earlier as I first entered college, I had now given it enough thought over the course of two years (sophomore & junior) to know that it was something I definitely wished to pursue. I knew I wanted to combine my interests in Africana studies, history, and political science/international affairs in a way that both advanced knowledge and challenged social norms and values in ways that could bring about fundamental change through practical pursuits. I needed creativity combined with hard facts, solid statistics, and in-depth analysis. I needed to study Africana studies with an emphasis in political science (international/comparative) and contemporary history. I saw this as the best path for myself because I would be able to use my breadth of studies to analyze issues from multiple angles, as well as my strong desire for in-depth analysis to dig deep into the heart/root of any issue.
Coincidentally, I had been a member of the legislative body of the student government for two years. This granted me the opportunity to participate in researching issues, conducting opinion polls, and most importantly test my knowledge, judgment and interpersonal communication skills in choosing the best options and alternatives for the student body. This experience was extremely helpful in my understanding of legislative politics by providing a practical application to my theory based knowledge. In the same manner my three years spent as a resident assistant in the residence halls on campus induced me into good time management skills as well as opening my senses and sensibilities to people with different backgrounds, ideals and habits from my own. Talking with residents and learning their values and interests forced me to see each situation that arose from multiple perspectives, be they right or wrong.
Being away from school for two years has been a huge advantage for me. Moving to metro N/A from central Pennsylvania (raised)/northeast Ohio (college) has also allowed me to bring the Civil Rights Movement to life through visiting museums and historic sights. Also, my southern experience has allowed me to experience life in a different region of the country which in turn has taught me just how diverse African-American thought can range on similar issues. I've invested my time in reading history, politics, old college textbooks (which seem to make even more sense now), The Washington Post, and scholarly journals such as Foreign Affairs, The Fletcher Forum of World Affairs, and Policy Review. I also used my degree in education to teach tenth grade World History Honors at a local high school in N/A. This experience gave me (my last semester in undergrad I also student taught American government and Economics to high school seniors) the honor of disseminating knowledge to young intellectuals striving to push ahead in life. However, this isn't a path that can cure my intellectual hunger and curiosity. Even though I love teaching, I also love researching and creating knowledge as well. Teaching in an inner-city high school reinforced and even expanded upon my deep beliefs in "learning for learning’s sake" and keeping an open mind. Not only has my experience exposed weaknesses in me that I previously could only recognize in other people, but it also focused my graduate studies on African Americans within the African Diaspora. Growing up in Williamsport, PA, a conservative predominately white town in central Pennsylvania, I often experienced subtle (but noticeable) racism hidden under a veil of generosity. African-American history, culture and activism were 'melted' rather than 'solidified'. My college and subsequent job experience has provided me with a greater realization of my place within the African Diaspora. Naturally, my intense interest in the Civil Rights movement, international relations, and African Diaspora studies has revealed that my deepest desire is to increase communication, openness and cohesion among members of the Diaspora throughout the world. I realize that politics is what helps create history and should be taken more seriously by citizens and scholars alike.
In graduate school I intend to focus on African American studies with an emphasis in contemporary history and politics (primarily international/comparative). I intend to research how the African-American "double-consciousness" (Dubois) can effectively promote U.S. foreign policy (and global stability) in ways that will strengthen Pan-Africanism. In part of this study I intend to examine contemporary African-American members of the federal government to examine their "views and proceeding actions" towards U.S. foreign policy and Pan-Africanism. This is necessary in order to examine whether African-American policy makers have "adopted" a mainstream view of foreign affairs and why. I also intend to expand upon African-American participation in foreign policy to include new African immigrants and the effect they could have on U.S. foreign policy and their former countries by empowering democracy from abroad through American soft power, particularly the media. Do we need more "African" politicians in so called "Black" communities in order to diversify thinking on both sides and foster a better working coalition among both groups? If so, what compromises will have to be made on each side? In speaking of Africa, I would love to examine the question, "Does a shared view of history decrease violence and promote cooperation between rival groups within Africa and among the African Diaspora?"


Open Question: What is the best elliptical for me to buy for the new year 2008?

The study of politics first grabbed my attention when I started to pursue my own examination of the Civil Rights Movement. Examining the methods employed by the Eisenhower, Kennedy, and Johnson administrations to achieve “order over justice” at various points in the movement always bothered me. However, these same methods that I deplored with the advantage of hindsight that I now enjoy through the works of many scholars such as Taylor Branch and David Garrow led to my fascination with international and comparative politics. Particularly, Pan-Africanism and its effect on Black American political thought and activism.
My study of civil rights was originally intended to be a personal examination of the people, places and events that were so critical in shaping my African-American experience. During undergrad, I found myself enchanted with classes such as Turning Points in U.S. History #1 which examined the Black slave from colonial times to the beginning of reconstruction, Turning Points in U.S. History #2 which examined the Black man during the height of the second freedom struggle know as the Civil Rights Movement, and Africana Studies which examined the modern African-American experience today in America – and was taught by a professor with a professed Pan-Africanist point of view. This Pan-Africanist prospective opened my eyes not only to Pan-Africanism, but also to having a more internationalist perspective of current events.
Coincidentally, the semester I was enrolled in Africana Studies, I was also privileged to be enrolled in The History of South Africa and Middle East 2: The Modern Period simultaneously. Looking back, The History of South Africa course reinforced Ian Bremmer’s theory on “The J Curve.” I saw how domestic pressure from an increasingly unhappy but politically powerless Black majority combined with sanctions and isolation from the international community eventually hastened the inevitable breakdown of apartheid. However, I was more impressed by how President Mandela had the vision and political savvy to use his political capital to transition his country to the upper right side of the J-Curve through the combination of reconciliation, openness, and sound economic policies (However, I firmly believe that to keep South Africa from the same fate as Zimbabwe or other African countries he had no choice but to pursue the policies that he did. Mandela was thinking for the long term rather than short term, just as the Whites who voted for the transitional government were thinking.)
Just as President Mandela was planning for the long term, Middle East 2: The Modern Period also taught me Theodore Herzl’s long term strategies for Zionism and the establishment of the modern nation of Israel. This was particularly fascinating for me because I was able to compare and contrast Pan-Africanism with Zionism. Although the two philosophies aren't identical, a sharp comparison of the two demonstrates when, where and how an idea is likely to take hold and evolve into a movement and why great movements don't always make for great administration and state building.
As a social studies education major I was often forced to substitute courses I was eager to take in the fields of international relations and Africana studies for courses that "were required" for my major. Originally I viewed this as a negative aspect, but once again hindsight has proved that taking the required social studies education curriculum which stressed breadth (geography, history, political science, economics, sociology) over depth (single discipline) has placed me ahead of some of my peers when it comes to understanding politics and contemporary history from multiple perspectives, which is an even bigger advantage in the interdisciplinary fields of Africana studies and international relations. This was confirmed in the summer prior to my senior year of undergrad. I finally got my opportunity to take two courses that induced me to consider a change of career plans, U.S. Foreign Policy and Comparative Politics. These two courses challenged the typical American citizen's thinking of foreign affairs by requiring us to go beyond our perceptions of the policy by examining a policy's messy domestic formulation, its comparative perception overseas, and the policy's resulting consequences at home and abroad. Each course challenged mythmaking by examining harsh realities due to history, geography, economics, and sociology - not just politics. Everything plays a role seen and unseen.
Although graduate school was never my intention three years earlier as I first entered college, I had now given it enough thought over the course of two years (sophomore & junior) to know that it was something I definitely wished to pursue. I knew I wanted to combine my interests in Africana studies, history, and political science/international affairs in a way that both advanced knowledge and challenged social norms and values in ways that could bring about fundamental change through practical pursuits. I needed creativity combined with hard facts, solid statistics, and in-depth analysis. I needed to study Africana studies with an emphasis in political science (international/comparative) and contemporary history. I saw this as the best path for myself because I would be able to use my breadth of studies to analyze issues from multiple angles, as well as my strong desire for in-depth analysis to dig deep into the heart/root of any issue.
Coincidentally, I had been a member of the legislative body of the student government for two years. This granted me the opportunity to participate in researching issues, conducting opinion polls, and most importantly test my knowledge, judgment and interpersonal communication skills in choosing the best options and alternatives for the student body. This experience was extremely helpful in my understanding of legislative politics by providing a practical application to my theory based knowledge. In the same manner my three years spent as a resident assistant in the residence halls on campus induced me into good time management skills as well as opening my senses and sensibilities to people with different backgrounds, ideals and habits from my own. Talking with residents and learning their values and interests forced me to see each situation that arose from multiple perspectives, be they right or wrong.
Being away from school for two years has been a huge advantage for me. Moving to metro N/A from central Pennsylvania (raised)/northeast Ohio (college) has also allowed me to bring the Civil Rights Movement to life through visiting museums and historic sights. Also, my southern experience has allowed me to experience life in a different region of the country which in turn has taught me just how diverse African-American thought can range on similar issues. I've invested my time in reading history, politics, old college textbooks (which seem to make even more sense now), The Washington Post, and scholarly journals such as Foreign Affairs, The Fletcher Forum of World Affairs, and Policy Review. I also used my degree in education to teach tenth grade World History Honors at a local high school in N/A. This experience gave me (my last semester in undergrad I also student taught American government and Economics to high school seniors) the honor of disseminating knowledge to young intellectuals striving to push ahead in life. However, this isn't a path that can cure my intellectual hunger and curiosity. Even though I love teaching, I also love researching and creating knowledge as well. Teaching in an inner-city high school reinforced and even expanded upon my deep beliefs in "learning for learning’s sake" and keeping an open mind. Not only has my experience exposed weaknesses in me that I previously could only recognize in other people, but it also focused my graduate studies on African Americans within the African Diaspora. Growing up in Williamsport, PA, a conservative predominately white town in central Pennsylvania, I often experienced subtle (but noticeable) racism hidden under a veil of generosity. African-American history, culture and activism were 'melted' rather than 'solidified'. My college and subsequent job experience has provided me with a greater realization of my place within the African Diaspora. Naturally, my intense interest in the Civil Rights movement, international relations, and African Diaspora studies has revealed that my deepest desire is to increase communication, openness and cohesion among members of the Diaspora throughout the world. I realize that politics is what helps create history and should be taken more seriously by citizens and scholars alike.
In graduate school I intend to focus on African American studies with an emphasis in contemporary history and politics (primarily international/comparative). I intend to research how the African-American "double-consciousness" (Dubois) can effectively promote U.S. foreign policy (and global stability) in ways that will strengthen Pan-Africanism. In part of this study I intend to examine contemporary African-American members of the federal government to examine their "views and proceeding actions" towards U.S. foreign policy and Pan-Africanism. This is necessary in order to examine whether African-American policy makers have "adopted" a mainstream view of foreign affairs and why. I also intend to expand upon African-American participation in foreign policy to include new African immigrants and the effect they could have on U.S. foreign policy and their former countries by empowering democracy from abroad through American soft power, particularly the media. Do we need more "African" politicians in so called "Black" communities in order to diversify thinking on both sides and foster a better working coalition among both groups? If so, what compromises will have to be made on each side? In speaking of Africa, I would love to examine the question, "Does a shared view of history decrease violence and promote cooperation between rival groups within Africa and among the African Diaspora?"

Open Question: What was this show I used to watch back in the 70's - 80's?


Ok. I think it was a show that came on when I got home from school, may have even been on during school and I only caught it on sick days and vacation days, cause it WAS grown uppish with mature themes. It was almost like a movie that changed themes every week. One week it would be monsters, like 'creature from the black lagoon', or a killer robot from outer space movie, or some weird humanoid creature with suckers on it's finger tips, etc. Then maybe another week would have a totally different theme. I'm sorry, that's about all I remember. The clearest memory is the one about the alien monsters. I remember it was snowy on the ground. These weird humanoid monsters kept creepin up on these unsuspecting people with this really eirie music, and each monster was a little different then the last. Oh, I also remember these giant monsters that ran around in this building that look like giant Mcdonalds fry guys without the long legs that if they touched you you were good as dead. Help?

Open Question: What is the best elliptical for me to buy for the new year 2008?


One of my fitness goals is to get into better shape (generally speaking) with one of these fabulous machines. Is this realistic and achievable?

Features I want to optimize for me include: 20 inch stride, 300 lbs. + user capacity, for at home use, would like it to be 'commerical grade' (preferable) but not necessarily, affordable (at the lowest possible price) -- under $600 (preferably), durable (built well), long lasting (high quality), with a Cardio Program (that reads heart rate), sturdy (wont tip over easily), and new (not refurbished).


Open Question: Vista problems?

I was six when I met him.
I was this pretentious little Upper East Sider that had been raised in a typical green awning-ed building by a nanny named Clara that wore white gloves and was from France. He was a shaggy-haired tiny rocker, already harboring a sort of rebel attitude along the lines of James Dean (circa Rebel without a Cause). He was from the West Village, a neighborhood my mother would never have set a Jimmy Choo-ed foot in. In her closed-conservative mind, it was almost as bad as Queens.
I was getting dropped off for my first day of Kindergarten at Cappaport Academy, the school at which my mother had applied me to the day I was born, by Clara. It was raining, hard, and Clara was holding a Burberry umbrella in her white-gloved hand as we went up the steps to the intimidating white stone building on Park. I was carrying a tiny Kate Spade coin purse, for buying lunch, of course. The already upwards of 40k a year cost of tuition school charged extra for their all-organic vegetarian lunches, and snacks of Perrier and sugar-free cupcakes from Rose Bakery next door were extra on top of that.
As Clara signed me in with the Chanel-wearing secretary and waited to get my schedule (yes, as a kindergartener, I had to get a schedule), a tall red haired woman wearing paint-splattered jeans and a Prada flower-print dress ran in, her demeanor in entire disarray. She was toting a little boy with messy auburn hair wearing khakis and a black cashmere tee-shirt, and she was yelling into her cell phone something about “going to Ivan’s art show in Brooklyn”. They looked like Park Avenue’s demented surprise babies, conceived by a clandestine affair with Alphabet City.
The secretary looked the woman and her son up and down before literally turning her nose up at them. She asked the mother’s name, and when it was given, immediately turned down her nose and ushered them through the huge oak doors leading to the elevators right behind us.
As we both stepped onto the elevators, Clara and the woman started the quintessential small talk essential to any New Yorker.
“Clara Maddeuax, I’m this Delilah Chase’s nanny,” She introduced herself. She always introduced me like that, as “this Delilah Chase”. With her French accent, most people interpreted it was “miss Delilah Chase”, which was probably for the best.
“Pleased to meet you, This Delilah Chase. I’m Rhea O’Neil, mother to This Sebastian Walker.”
So she had caught the “this.” But for a moment, I thought Clara had gone mute. She stopped fiddling with her gloves and looked up at the woman like she had just told her she was Jesus Christ’s daughter. After a long, awkward silence, she finally said,
“You-You’re Rhea O’Neil? My God, You’re my favorite artist of all time!” The woman just smiled and nodded, obviously used to this sort of reaction.
“I’m flattered, darling.” The woman-or, as we now know, Rhea O’Neil murmured politely, just as the elevator doors opened to the Kindergarten floor.
Classical music was playing from the ceiling, the smell of Chanel No. 5 wafted in the air, and the children in the room were all silent Ralph Lauren Child Fall Catalog look-alikes. It felt like I had stepped into the Church of Classic Wealth, worshipping Chanel, Park Avenue, and Mozart. Resale shops, fattening cakes, and bright colors were the Antichrists at Cappaport.
Clara leaned down, gave me two quick kisses on each cheek, and left, muttering a quick, “bonjour” to the teacher, who was standing by the door, watching over the terrified class of beautiful children like a hawk. Any tear that was shed was quickly wiped off with a glare from the teacher, whose title, I would learn later, was Madam Roguard.
Rhea O’Neil merely patted little Sebastian on the butt and nodded at Madam before lighting up a cigarette as she left. Madam’s mouth opened, most likely to bark at her about the strict no-smoking rule at Cappaport, but Rhea was already in the elevator, flicking ash onto the flawless white carpet.
Sebastian and I looked at each other with curious eyes. He was by far the child that fit in the least among the obscenely preppy crowd; even though his attire wasn’t too crazy, his manner was decidedly Greenwich, whereas the other children’s was definitely Upper East Side. I fit in easily, with my Ralph Lauren Annora Polo Dress in sea foam, my black curls held back by a J. Crew headband and my teeth already doctor-straightened and whitened. I had been brought up to be silent around adults, polite around children, intelligent around teachers.
But Sebastian…I already knew something was different about him, even then. He had this mop of messy auburn hair that fell into bright brown eyes, a lopsided grin that bore a huge gap between his front teeth, and such a sort of confidence exuded from him that you knew he wasn’t born and bred a few steps away from Central Park.
Hold on a second. This isn’t a love story, if that’s what you’re thinking. Not at all. So if that’s what you want, you better look elsewhere, because I’m about to tell a story with little to no romance in it whatsoever. I realize what I’ve said so far has conveyed severe Nicholas Sparks vibes, but that is about to end. Just to give you a heads up.
Alright. Now that that’s been straightened out…
Sebastian looked straight at me and said, with the oddest look of rebellion in his eye,
“Hi. Your hair is messed up. And your nanny is a piece of crap. Just thought I’d let you know that,” He stated before skipping over to talk to a Maddox Jolie-Pitt clone.
I remember being so caught off guard by his comments that I literally froze. My mouth dropped and I felt myself going numb. This was Cappaport Academy, supposed home of the most elite children in the city, and this was the first person I meet? A horridly rude little boy that had an artist, albeit an incredibly famous one, for a mother? Something in the world had gone horrendously wrong.
Thus was my first encounter with Sebastian Walker.

Open Question: Vista problems?


My inlaws just got a laptop(Acer) w/Vista home and built in webcam,they DL'd messenger but it is contantly shutting down are there any known compatability issus w/vista and messenger?


Open Question: Pls suggest me dress.....................?

I was wondering if you guys could determine the technical feasibility of an idea I have. It is a sort of text SMS reminders on demand web application. Essentially, a user signs up for the service, where they will have two columns to input information they want to remember. One column would be information such as "driver's license," "John Doe's home address," "Jane Doe's work Phone number." On the other column there would be the actual information (12345678, 123 sesame st. new york ny 10012, (123) 4567890). They save this information, so when they forget this information, all they would have to do is text on their cell phone "driver's license number" to a special number and the service would text back 12345678. Same thing for the other information.

It doesn't really matter what language or framework I will use to build this app, most likely the ubiquitous php/mysql combination. Also any feedback on the idea itself would be great as well.

Thanks! Jnbill,

Thank you for the response. I checked out the clickatell SMS gateway solution and with the amount of text messages that I want to be going in and out of the system, it would cost a fortune. What type of business model would you (as a user) most want: monthly charge or on a per diem basis?

I will have to research further text message security as this was the first issue that popped into my head. Maybe password protect the incoming message-so when the system sends you the driver's license number, you would be prompted to give a quick, hard to duplicate, password in order to see "1234567" on your phone.

Just some thoughts, and I do appreciate your response on this holiday night!

Open Question: chest exercises at home?


i dont have gym membership, and i dont have bench nor a bar but i do have dumb bells.. push ups dont really work to build a bigger chest.. any suggestions?
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Open Question: Pls suggest me dress.....................?


Myself working Bengali woman from Calcutta,39 years old-very dark complexion with height of 168 cms......
Weight 102 Kgs,vital stat 42-32–48
and engaged with a boy of 28,very fair,abt 6' tall,athletic built.......

I an only comfortable with Saris, but now a days my lover encourages me to wear sleeveless blouses and saris, everywhere............he told me that i shud always look charming............I dont use sleeveless blouses outside home....but while goin out with him pls suggest what to wear and how to.....I wanna make him happy


Open Question: Strange smell in my Bedroom! Any ideas on what it is and how to get rid of it?

house was built new 11 years ago. But as the years went on I started to notice a strange smell. I have difficulty describing it exactly, it is vague, yet strong enough to definately notice it. it is kinda like a mixture of rotten food, musty, stale dank air, and a small fart. I know it sounds weird. This is the only way I could describe it. its not just one particular odor and its so vague that it is hard to say what the smell is. I am a very clean person. There is NO food or garbage left out ever. There is no pet allowed in this room. I am the only person who sleeps here. I clean, dust, vacume, wash the sheets, everything top to bottom once a week. I have tried burning candles. Yet this smell keeps coming back. Usually it is most noticeable after I have been gone all day, then come home to a smelly room. I tried leaving windows open for entire day to air out. But now it is winter, and I can not do that. Seems to be stronger when the weather is damp. See additional details. There are no smelly shoes, or dirty clothes left around. No plants whatsoever. I am a very organized and clean person. Everything in its place is my motto. As I said before... I clean thoroughly top to bottom, on regular basis. I tried candles. Tried leaving windows open. This smell has been going on for about 5 years or so. Smells like Stale Dank Air, with a bad fart and some rotten food. Its not strong enough to make you sick. But it is noticeable enough to be an embarrassment and it ANNOYS me. My master bathroom is connected to the bedroom... but it doesnt seem to be coming from the bathroom. It seems to be in the bedroom only. Years ago they converted the neighborhood from Septic tanks, to connections to the city sewer line... Could it be from that??? The smell seemed to come when they did that. But I am not sure. Does anyone out there have any ideas on what it is... and How to get rid of it??? to the first poster: Mold could be a good possibility since this side of the house is always more damp. The windows on this side of the house always have stuff growing in them. Also the dampness is high from my ajoining bathroom with shower. But would Mold cause this Rotten food/Poopy/Stale odor?? Once about 8 years ago... I heard some mice in the walls scratching around... But if they died... I don't think the smell would have lingered for 5 years... Good thought though! Alot of people here are saying it is mold... How do I get rid of Mold? Would mold smell like poop and rotten food? I thought mold smelled like a wet basement? Maryn Bittner: I clean this room all this time. I am always looking around. Never have seen mold... except for a little growing on the window casings one time... but that was cleaned... Furniture is moved on a regular basis ( every 9 mos or so ) to vacumme under it... Never saw any mold. The smell does not come from one particular place... Its just in the air... in the center of the room... Its not coming from the walls or anything specific... Its just in the AIR... its so hard to explain, it really annoys me. If the problem really is Mold.... Why my room? Why not the rest of the house too? Other rooms are very close by... they have no odors at all. My room is the cleanest by far... since I clean so often... the rest of the house is not as clean... but yet it does not smell. WhY? this really annoys me!


Open Question: will my parents,mainly mom,continue to babysit everything i do even in college?

Hey,
I've had 2 male bettas in the past, (at separate times, I didn't keep them together). Both lived for only 8-9 months.They were in a 5 gallon tank, I cleaned their water once in 2 weeks, used de-chlorinators, anti bacterial drops, fed them once a day. They were happy fish, they built bubble nests and would flare at their reflections, they were active and everything was fine but they both passed away after 8-9 months.
I brought home a new male betta for Xmas, and I need help is to how I can make his life happier and healthier and help him live longer than 8-9months.
You need to know that where I live, there are no medicines available for fish ailments. There are very general medicines available which are not very effective. So pls give me some tips as to how I can keep my pet healthy and happy.
Thanks and Merry Xmas!

Resolved Question: will my parents, mainly mom, continue to babysit everything i do even in college?


i want to stay home for college and go to a community one to build my GPA (which isnt so bad) up and transfer to an honors program at the local university. The only problem is that my parents, mostly mom, will continue to treat me like a baby. Ive been asking all the time to let me get under the car insurance but my dad still didnt call and me not driving is getting in the way of my relationship. My mom yells at me to wake up early even on vacations and she expects me to give her respect but she can give me attitude, rudeness. She complained when i didnt have a job (its a school course) and now my dad is complaining that im working too much but it was the holidays! What do i do to let them know that I dont need to be babysit anymore because i am 17 almost 18 ?

Open Question: will my parents,mainly mom,continue to babysit everything i do even in college?


i want to stay home for college and go to a community one to build my GPA (which isnt so bad) up and transfer to an honors program at the local university. The only problem is that my parents, mostly mom, will continue to treat me like a baby. Ive been asking all the time to let me get under the car insurance but my dad still didnt call and me not driving is getting in the way of my relationship. My mom yells at me to wake up early even on vacations and she expects me to give her respect but she can give me attitude, rudeness. She complained when i didnt have a job (its a school course) and now my dad is complaining that im working too much but it was the holidays! What do i do to let them know that I dont need to be babysit anymore because i am 17 almost 18 ?


Open Question: how can i simply loose chest fat/man boobs with just home techniques if i dont have the luxery of a gym &etc?

First off, I'm talking about a manufactured home - NOT mobile! Get it straight before you confuse the two. What will my manufactured look like? http://www.idealmfghomes.com/LandPhotos/JOYCE.JPG

I have not bought it yet but am just planning. Now, I own a private (undeveloped lot) that has an ocean view. Thus, it's located in a urban/coastal area (NOT rural) - just in case you guys conjure up images of a trailer park folks living in the rural country side.

The cost of the home and site development will cost me about $270K. However, based on a lending company, they appraised the manufactured on my permanent property to be at least $400K.

The problem is though, 5 years down the road, will this be a good investment? People tell me it will be hard to refinance or sell my home - but I ask why? Isn't it like a single-family home now that it's permanently attached on a concrete foundation?

Or, will I be better off investing $300K in an old stick-built home?

Open Question: how can i simply loose chest fat/man boobs with just home techniques if i dont have the luxery of a gym &etc?


yes, im 18 and my self esteem is severly low and its tiring already, i recently had problems with the lady to, but were staying together i think (i hope) and one thing i want to do is get rid of this embarrasing chest fat, and i understand weight training can build the area and make it look just as large, i want to get rid of the fat, i dont have a tred mill, haha or a city i feel comfortable running in, but yeah between all the recent things making their way at me my confidence is gone, and i cant even wear a simple shirt without being petrified of people seeing it, and i just want to feel secure having fun swimming and all that when hte time comes, and be more fun for my girlfriend we have been together a while i dont want to risk my boring lifestyle for her, so yeah if i did like simple exercises like push ups and and sit ups every night and just ate smaller things would that help? any other ideas
please help
sorry for my spelling
and come on , keep the rude comments down.thanks


Open Question: really bad day?

yes, im 18 and my self esteem is severly low and its tiring already, i recently had problems with the lady to, but were staying together i think (i hope) and one thing i want to do is get rid of this embarrasing chest fat, and i understand weight training can build the area and make it look just as large, i want to get rid of the fat, i dont have a tred mill, haha or a city i feel comfortable running in, but yeah between all the recent things making their way at me my confidence is gone, and i cant even wear a simple shirt without being petrified of people seeing it, and i just want to feel secure having fun swimming and all that when hte time comes, and be more fun for my girlfriend we have been together a while i dont want to risk my boring lifestyle for her, so yeah if i did like simple exercises like push ups and and sit ups every night and just ate smaller things would that help? any other ideas
please help
sorry for my spelling
and come on , keep the rude comments down.thanks

Open Question: really bad day?


There was this guy at a bar, just looking at his drink. He stays like that for half of an hour.

Then, this big trouble-making truck driver steps next to him, takes the drink from the guy, and just drinks it all down. The poor man starts crying. The truck driver says, "Come on man, I was just joking. Here, I'll buy you another drink. I just can't stand to see a man cry."

"No, it's not that. This day is the worst of my life. First, I fall asleep, and I go late to my office. My boss, outrageous, fires me. When I leave the building, to my car, I found out it was stolen. The police said that they can do nothing. I get a cab to return home, and when I leave it, I remember I left my wallet and credit cards there. The cab driver just drives away."

"I go home, and when I get there, I find my wife in bed with the gardener. I leave home, and come to this bar. And just when I was thinking about putting an end to my life, you show up and drink my poison."


Open Question: I need some advice...I'm pregnant but desperately need a job?

When The Pigeon Lady && Kevin Are In That Building Listening To Music && He Gets Ready To Leave He Says I Promise Ill Always Be Your Friend [[Or Something Like That]]...I Need To KNow What She Says About Promises After That....I Want It For My Senior Quote....Thanks!! :-]

Open Question: Who bought Johnny Cash's home after his death?


I remember reading that someone famous bought Johnny Cash's home and land after his death and preserved it as a tribute to the man.

This person also built some kind of railroad on the land because of Cash's love of trains.

Anybody know who it was? It's really bugging me!! Thank you! When did it burn down - recently??

That's a shame and a terrible waste.....

Burning ring of fire eh!

Open Question: I need some advice...I'm pregnant but desperately need a job?


I am 13 weeks pregnant, have a 5 year old in kindergarten which goes only a half day and broke and need help. I have been with a photography company for 4 years it is seasonal and beginning again at the end of Jan but I dont think I will be able to do it this year cause it requires travel and sitting for up to 10-16 hours a day almost everyweekend til June. I have been able to make ends meet til now I am in debt and have been looking for a job but have had no luck finding one that would be worth working and having to pay for childcare. I am a competant person going through a really rough time and having no luck. No one wants to be flexible with me working aroung taking my daughter to school in the afternoon. I am going to go back to school for a semester to learn how to build websites so I have another skill cause I will have to take a break from my photography job and maybe I will be able to do something from home once I have my second child. But I am what can I do now? I don't want to work at a bar or anything like that...but maybe I'll have to....


Open Question: OMG! Having to work to get money ARABS? What a novel idea!!! Egypt is now copywriting the Pyramids?

I lived in Egypt. People are lazy and do not work even if there are jobs. Their life is in their mosques that breed hate. I lived there and heard Friday prayers on the loudspeakers say in Arabic:
God curse Israel and its infidel the USA until 911 and it changed to God curse the USA and its infidel Israel.
Now Egypt is taking laziness to a whole new level: Hawass, Egypt's leading Egyptologists wants to copyright the the Pyramids and other icons. Yup- tourism is failing in Egypt MAYBE BECAUSE THEY ARE MURDER LOVING TERRORISTS(?) and now they realize they have no American wants to go there because they are not safe. They have no money to buy their falafel and fool and instead of work for a living (OH GOD PERISH THE THOUGHT OF MISSING A KHUTBAH SPEECH ON TERRORISM AND JIHAD) they decide to make money a new way.
Yeah- let them copyright it as much as the Turks can copyright the Fez, England the Crown and Germany pictures of Jesus.
CAIRO (AFP) - In a potential blow to themed resorts from Vegas to Tokyo, Egypt is to pass a law requiring payment of royalties whenever its ancient monuments, from the pyramids to the sphinx, are reproduced.

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Zahi Hawass, the charismatic and controversial head of Egypt's Supreme Council of Antiquities, told AFP on Tuesday that the move was necessary to pay for the upkeep of the country's thousands of pharaonic sites.

"The new law will completely prohibit the duplication of historic Egyptian monuments which the Supreme Council of Antiquities considers 100-percent copies," he said.

"If the law is passed then it will be applied in all countries of the world so that we can protect our interests," Hawass said.

He said that a ministerial committee had already agreed on the law which should be passed in the next parliamentary session, while insisting the move would not hurt Egyptian artisans.

"It is Egypt's right to be the only copyright owner for these monuments in order to benefit financially so we can restore, preserve and protect Egyptian monuments."

However, the law "does not forbid local or international artists from profiting from drawings and other reproductions of pharaonic and Egyptian monuments from all eras -- as long as they don't make exact copies."

"Artists have the right to be inspired by everything that surrounds them, including monuments," he said.

Asked about the potential impact on the monumental Luxor Hotel in the US gambling capital of Las Vegas, Hawass insisted that particular resort was "not an exact copy of pharaonic monuments despite the fact it's in the shape of a pyramid."

On its website, the luxury hotel describes itself as "the only pyramid shaped building in the world," but Hawass said its interior was entirely different from an ancient Egyptian setting.

Hawass's declarations came after the opposition daily Al-Wafd published an article on Sunday called for the Las Vegas hotel to pay a slice of its lodging and gambling profits to the city of Luxor.

"Thirty-five million tourists visit Las Vegas to see the reproduction of Luxor city while only six million visit the real Egyptian city of Luxor," the paper lamented.

Samir Farag, head of Luxor town council in southern Egypt, home to the legendary Valley of the Kings, said that it would be difficult to prohibit use of pyramid shapes.

"We can't forbid people from using the name of Luxor and copying monuments from (Luxor) city, which is the world's richest city for monuments," he said, adding that "tourists going to Las Vegas doesn't affect our city's business." You need our gambling money. You need our jeans and McDonalds and American products or you will have no meaning in your life. You also need Israeli products such as CT scans and engineering know how- unless you want building collapses.


Open Question: A good home theater projector?

I lived in Egypt. People are lazy and do not work even if there are jobs. Their life is in their mosques that breed hate. I lived there and heard Friday prayers on the loudspeakers say in Arabic:
God curse Israel and its infidel the USA until 911 and it changed to God curse the USA and its infidel Israel.
Now Egypt is taking laziness to a whole new level: Hawass, Egypt's leading Egyptologists wants to copyright the the Pyramids and other icons. Yup- tourism is failing in Egypt MAYBE BECAUSE THEY ARE MURDER LOVING TERRORISTS(?) and now they realize they have no American wants to go there because they are not safe. They have no money to buy their falafel and fool and instead of work for a living (OH GOD PERISH THE THOUGHT OF MISSING A KHUTBAH SPEECH ON TERRORISM AND JIHAD) they decide to make money a new way.
Yeah- let them copyright it as much as the Turks can copyright the Fez, England the Crown and Germany pictures of Jesus.
CAIRO (AFP) - In a potential blow to themed resorts from Vegas to Tokyo, Egypt is to pass a law requiring payment of royalties whenever its ancient monuments, from the pyramids to the sphinx, are reproduced.

ADVERTISEMENT

Zahi Hawass, the charismatic and controversial head of Egypt's Supreme Council of Antiquities, told AFP on Tuesday that the move was necessary to pay for the upkeep of the country's thousands of pharaonic sites.

"The new law will completely prohibit the duplication of historic Egyptian monuments which the Supreme Council of Antiquities considers 100-percent copies," he said.

"If the law is passed then it will be applied in all countries of the world so that we can protect our interests," Hawass said.

He said that a ministerial committee had already agreed on the law which should be passed in the next parliamentary session, while insisting the move would not hurt Egyptian artisans.

"It is Egypt's right to be the only copyright owner for these monuments in order to benefit financially so we can restore, preserve and protect Egyptian monuments."

However, the law "does not forbid local or international artists from profiting from drawings and other reproductions of pharaonic and Egyptian monuments from all eras -- as long as they don't make exact copies."

"Artists have the right to be inspired by everything that surrounds them, including monuments," he said.

Asked about the potential impact on the monumental Luxor Hotel in the US gambling capital of Las Vegas, Hawass insisted that particular resort was "not an exact copy of pharaonic monuments despite the fact it's in the shape of a pyramid."

On its website, the luxury hotel describes itself as "the only pyramid shaped building in the world," but Hawass said its interior was entirely different from an ancient Egyptian setting.

Hawass's declarations came after the opposition daily Al-Wafd published an article on Sunday called for the Las Vegas hotel to pay a slice of its lodging and gambling profits to the city of Luxor.

"Thirty-five million tourists visit Las Vegas to see the reproduction of Luxor city while only six million visit the real Egyptian city of Luxor," the paper lamented.

Samir Farag, head of Luxor town council in southern Egypt, home to the legendary Valley of the Kings, said that it would be difficult to prohibit use of pyramid shapes.

"We can't forbid people from using the name of Luxor and copying monuments from (Luxor) city, which is the world's richest city for monuments," he said, adding that "tourists going to Las Vegas doesn't affect our city's business."

Open Question: Easy Curves?


I saw the ad on tv about "Easy Curves" (an exercise bar that increases the breast size). I dont doubt that it works because it is building the muscle under the breast making them "bigger".

I am wondering though, is there any exercises i can do at home that will give the same results? Or if someone has any other advise for naturally increasing the breast, please do tell.

Open Question: A good home theater projector?


I'm new to this whole projector business, so I thought I'd ask you guys.
Alright here's my situation: I am going to build a dark(no windows) room in my basement. I need a decent projector for it.

-The projector must be HD
-Able to connect to a Wii.
-Able to connect to a sound system.
-Able to connect to a DVD player.
-Price range: $1000-$1500
Suggestions?